Creating Happiness at Work
I believe that finding what is truly important is done when external expectations, ego, fear and failure are removed.
Unrealistic expectations lead to unhappiness. Whether it is social standards, expectations from colleagues and parents, or social comparisons, these expectations cause a discrepancy between reality and perceived truths. Not all expectations are bad, as they push mediocrity, drive one forward and motivate, but that is only the case when those expectations are done inwardly and realistically. Once you look externally to compare to others, overvalue personal pride, fear failure, or fear being embarrassed, expectations are distorted in a way to create a discontent.